“He knew very well that the grat majority of human conversation is meaningless. A man can get through most of his days on stock answers to stock questions, he thought. Once he catches onto the game he can manage with an assortment of grunts. This would not be so if people listened to each other, but they don’t. They know that no one is going to say anything moving and important to them at that very moment. Anything important will be announced in the newspapers and reprinted for those who missed it. No one really wants to know how his neighbor is feeling, but he asks him anyway, because it is polite, and because he knows that his neighbor certainly will not tell him how he feels. What this woman and I say to each other is not important. It is the simple making of sounds which pleases us.”
~Peter S. Beagle, A Fine and Private Place 1960
I first blogged this quote back in 2002, in reference to blogging. It’s still very relevant, don’t you think?
(The photo is not directly related to the quote; it’s just one I haven’t posted before.)